Entries by slavisa

Is Your Happiness Paying the Price for Frozen Feet Syndrome?

What’s your standard for love and passion in your life?  Don’t just settle. Have you ever made a decision to change something in your life, and then gotten cold feet? Some people get what I call “Frozen Feet Syndrome” where they become incapable of ever changing anything, because the fear and overwhelm seem too profound. […]

Are You the Untested Ferrari?

Yes your life is fine, but is that enough? Many years ago they built the most amazing Ferrari. It had a uniquely beautiful design. A highly sophisticated instrument panel with touch sensitive controls. Its handling system was run by the most advanced technology that ever existed. The most luxurious custom interior ever created. An amazingly […]

How to Avoid the Relationship Destroying Escalation

Is it the beginning of the end, or a new beginning? Many years ago I had a conversation with my wife that could have ended our marriage. And I have seen many couples engaged in the exact same cycle of relationship destruction. Here’s what happened: My wife said something to me and I responded back. […]

Emotional Fitness: The Key to Your Happiness

This is my “depressed stance.” When you’re depressed, it makes a lot of difference how you stand. The worst thing you can do is straighten up and hold your head high because then you’ll start to feel better. If you’re going to get any joy out of being depressed, you’ve got to stand like this. […]

What Men Really Want From Their Relationship

No it’s not just sex. If men admit the truth, we are driven by freedom more than anything else. To do what we want, when we want and where we want. We pursue careers and business with a vengeance in order to afford ourselves the perception of freedom which includes having abundance as well as […]

How to Achieve Your New Year’s Resolutions

Most people fail because of a lack of clarity and commitment. What do you want to change or achieve in the New Year 2014? For most of us, change is something we are not very committed to. We tend to avoid it and pretend that someday soon we will get to making our lives the […]

Is My Marriage Worth Fixing, or Should I Just Let it Die?

In America, about every 13 seconds a couple divorces. That’s over 46,000 divorces a week. That’s a tidy sum of legal billing hours for the attorneys involved. Adding to the financial pain is the emotional trauma for the family of any couple going through that process summed up into two words. It sucks! Here’s what […]

Pursuing Entrepeneurial Success

What’s missing and what to do about it. Risk taking. That’s what you do as an entrepreneur. You take an idea filled with your passion and you put it on the line with your money, sweat, heart and soul. You are all in. The drive to succeed and make your mark moves you at the […]

Is Your Partner Pushing Your Buttons?

Time for Some Button Pushing Push Back If you’ve been in your relationship for any reasonable period of time you know that there are times when you don’t always agree with your partner. Maybe you’ve had an argument or two over the years…maybe more than two hundred of them. In any disagreement or misunderstanding, emotions […]