What You Are About to Remember…
Is that your past behaviors, interactions and reactions to your partner are ruling your relationship today.
For better or worse.
That’s a lot of ingrained, unconscious habits and patterns that you have with each other if you have been together a long time.
If you want to improve your relationship, you must lighten and soften your approach with your partner.
What REALLY Pushes Your Buttons?
Have you ever been in an argument with your partner and maybe it escalated into something ugly but later on, you couldn’t remember what that argument was about?
You’re not alone. I have been there myself.
Isn’t it true that no one can push our buttons like our partner?
What do you vow will be different in your life this year?
Did you know that of the people who set New Year’s resolutions, by the end of the first week of January 25% of them will have given up?
By the end of January almost half have decided that whatever it was they wanted to change was no longer important so they quit pursuing it.
People’s commitment continues to melt away like the spring snow as the months go by.
This is Thanksgiving week, and the official beginning of the Holiday Season. A very special time of year…at least for many of us. But for others, this same Season is just a trigger to remember their unhappiness. Thanksgiving is supposed to be a reminder to be grateful for the good things we have in our lives.
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Jeff Forte CSIC CME
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