Activating Your Mindset for Greatness

Greatness happens in ways most people don’t pay attention to.

There isn’t anything special about it. There’s no secret birthright required.

  • It’s hard work.
  • It’s difficult.
  • It isn’t easy ever.

But what people miss is that those who are great at anything find a way to consistently do what most others don’t want to.

And they do it whether they feel motivated that day or not.

They do what they think is going to make them better, all the time. They can’t imagine not doing it.

They enjoy the grind of the hard work. They enjoy the challenge to improve. They enjoy feeling the competitive nature that drives them.

This working to improve themselves matters greatly.

In some ways as much as the victories, financial rewards, or championships. In the blink of any eye the season and year are over. Great people may tally their winnings and accolades but they get right back to work.

When you’re at the top, that becomes an emotional element. The work, the effort, the focus, the concentration, the sacrifice; it’s always somehow worth it.

It feels good. It feels right.

Warriors, scholars, innovators, entrepreneurs, athletes all go through the same process emotionally.

No practice or work routine is always exciting and filled with a rush of adrenaline. But it gets done anyway.

Will you love what you do enough to become great at it?

  • To embrace the dull and repetitive elements of getting better?
  • To face the grinding work with discipline, focus, and determination to improve?

When you do those things, greatness begins to take form in your craft.

You become great at anything day by day through your immersion in the subject. It gathers momentum through your relentless effort to fulfill a dream or burning desire; to be or do something extraordinary.

If you’re ready to tap into your true potential; reach out to talk with me here.

 

 

Accept Your Resilience

 

Resilience is the most natural human condition.

Resilience is the catalyst for all change.

Resilience is aligning with your values that you cherish about yourself.

 

And that makes it undeniably easy to do what’s needed.

 

And nothing is hard when you have aligned with your values that you most cherish.

Things cannot be easy when you forget Who you are.

 

And they cannot be easy when you pretend that life is always about you;  What you want,

What you need,  What you think,  What you decide, What you say,  What you care about.

 

And things are never easy when you neglect the essence of what makes you, You.

And the first of those is the values and qualities you most cherish about yourself.

And they always begin with resilience, the first human condition.

 

Resilience brings resources fullness, and leads to answers to alter your situation to what

you prefer it to be. Without resilience nothing is possible.

 

You are the only thing that stands between where you are right now and where you

absolutely want to be.

 

Then let go of anything else.

Then let go of anything else.

 

Resilience is an empty vessel without asking for help.

Let’s talk and get you the answers you need to make your life

the way you want it to be.

 

10 Principles of Peak Performance

Some people are interested in achievement, while others are committed. What happens next is a direct result of those choices.

Here are 10 Principles that help create Peak Performance:

  1. Clarity of Vision- This includes specific goals and outcomes that are easily measured. It also includes an elevated vision of Self. When you know Who you are, you tend to know What to do.
  2. Self-Directed Action– Always in the direction of the desired outcomes. The pre-occupation with the vision creates inspired action. All peak performers are self-motivated.
  3. High Commitment to Personal Role and Responsibility- The relentless willingness to do what’s needed, along with the determination to see the journey through, provide resilience to overcome obstacles relatively easily.
  4. Mindset of Empowerment- The “I’ve got this” focus of active positive messaging despite setbacks are all self-generated. Self-doubt is rare.
  5. Willingness to Learn– A high desire for insights that provide a competitive edge brings an openness to engage experts.
  6. Improvement, Elevation and Expansion Focus– “What makes me better?” Past success fades, and the exuberance of what else is possible replaces complacency. Refined action displaces disappointment or fear.
  7. Engagement Hunger- There’s a high desire to push Self towards outcomes while finding personal satisfaction within the effort.
  8. Working Wisdom and Honesty- The effort is focused for maximum payoff within hierarchical priorities. There’s an understanding that effort is impaired by a variety of human factors that may require balance offsets. Peak performers tell themselves the truth about how well they are doing their part.
  9. Anticipation Sensing– The ability to see, feel and know with certainty that the desired outcomes will happen. The vision becomes inevitable because of the level of personal effort and creativity.
  10. Refinement and Enjoyment- There’s an ongoing curiosity about what might be more effective, and a recognition that even the smallest distinction could create an enormous payoff. It feels good to be immersed in the hard work that creates the desired outcomes.

In my experience as a trusted advisor to many highly successful people including; Professional Athletes, Emmy Award Winners, Fortune 500 Executives and Technology Visionary’s, this theme is consistent:

Believing in yourself is not enough.

Knowing Who you are, and the Mindset that What you want is Inevitable; are the real game-changers.

Reach out and we’ll talk about what’s important to you.

The Art of Self-Neglect

The most trying times in life are not the struggles as much as our internal dilemma:

  • Do we choose to rise up, or not?
  • Do we decide that we are bigger than this thing, or not?
  • Do we accept our capacity to work our way through?

Will we honor the truth; that we have more strength and resilience inside each of us, waiting patiently to be discovered?

In the hurry up living that we all too often find ourselves engulfed in, Where do we allow for moments of offset?

  • Offsets to stress
  • Offsets to self-neglect
  • Offsets to unhappiness
  • Offsets to unhealthy lifestyles
  • Offsets to relationship dysfunction
  • Offsets to burnout and overwhelm

Some part of us yearns for more aliveness in the choices we are making, more depth to the meanings in our lives, and greater inner peace.

The funny thing is while we may want those things; Who has the time?

Unfortunately, to choose self-neglect over anything else is unwise. as the consequences inevitably find their way too us.

Time is short. Choose wisely.

Talk to me.

  1. You’ll know the most important areas of overall life success.
  2. You’ll know what’s needed for greater personal fulfillment and happiness.
  3. You’ll know what to do next.

Measure Your Greatness

There is only one personally meaningful measure of greatness.

That you gave your gifts without apology and at such a high level you inspired others to reach for the same or more, while being personally at peace with yourself.

There is no greatness if you never feel at peace with your effort or achievements, because you will always feel unsatisfied.

It’s hard to feel great if you are filled with regret, or never gave your best, or never achieved the level of success you aspired to.

In my conversations with Olympic and Professional Athletes, Emmy Award Winners, Fortune 500 Sr. Executives and other highly successful people, one thing is clear:

The inner peace comes only from the self-honesty of whether you laid it all on the line or not.

Measured perhaps by the mirror test that the most decorated US Winter Olympic Athlete  Apolo Ohno talks about in his book Zero Regrets;

  • “Did I do everything I could today to become a champion?”

You might ask; Did i do everything I could today to achieve my outcomes?

Did I personally win the day with my effort, my focus, my commitment, my resolve, and my leadership?

The mark of greatness lends itself to being fully aware of these things.

The other element is how you handle pressure.

The higher the level, the greater the heat.

Great people are able to meet pressure with the delivery of their best effort while embracing the pressure. Some part of them wants to lay it all on the line giving their best; win or lose.

While everyone wants to win, or achieve at high levels, giving everything you have is in some ways more meaningful.

Maybe victory over self is the sweetest victory of all.

The imposter syndrome defines those who would fear to be found out as frauds for achieving their attained levels of success, because they have not had to dig deep inside themselves to give their best effort, nor had to overcome harsh adversities on their path to success. In many ways their path was too easy, and knowing this eats away at their self-worth.

Awards and achievements will never fulfill compared to the personal satisfaction and inner peace obtained through the delivery of your best.

And if you aspire to do great things, you will find that the delivery of your best is an upward moving target.

Reach out to me here if you are ready to tap into more of your own greatness.