Interested in Being a Better Leader?

The essence of leadership is a willingness to align yourself with what you believe to be important,  and the interests of the people who look to you for direction.

Nothing matters more than your recognition that they matter. And until they know it, they’re unlikely to care very much.

You are measured every day in how you demonstrate that, often in the most subtle of ways.

When morale, job performance and loyalty are less than desired, that’s the thing that needs to change the most.

Why will they want to work their hearts out for you?

As you may be aware, the #1 reason people leave their job is because of a bad boss or manager. That stated another way is a leader who doesn’t know how to demonstrate caring about people.

When you know WHO you are,… and are true to yourself,

Then you know WHAT to do,…and you do it.

The ability to understand yourself can be a catalyst for the empowerment of others. That happens through the recognition of your own thought and feeling life. The very essence of your own happiness is created and sustained here.

My approach to helping leaders become more influential starts here. Reach out if you’d like to begin to explore that for yourself.

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Ode to Johnny “Football” Manziel

Is greatness; given, or earned?

You start out with a given set of innate; skills, abilities, instincts and intelligence.

And that can take you to a certain level of success, as it did Mr. Johnny “Football”. You were a Heisman trophy winning quarter from Texas A & M, and former 1st round draft pick who clearly had plenty of innate skills, abilities and instincts.

Change Your Management Style,…Do this One Thing

Want more loyalty from your employees?

What to be able to make a greater impact as a leader?

As you may be aware, the #1 Reason employees leave is because of their boss.

Is that you?

As a leader, when you walk into a room you are immediately influencing people…
Before you say one word.

What’s the feeling that people get from your presence? Do you know?

Are You Sure You Want Love…

Or is it something else?

People say they want love, but they withhold from their partner.
They withhold appreciation.
People withhold giving

Why Team Building is a Dead End

1. Why Team Building is a Dead End***.

Your team is probably a loose business alliance and it’s killing performance.

So what’s wrong with team building? Nothing, if you believe that taking a bunch of employees off-site to bond, play games, and do various complex simulations will create more trust, elevate openness, and improve overall team communication.

What’s the tangible, true value of the team building experience to the organization?
When employees spend more time together potentially good things can happen.

Is Unfulfilling Love Better than No Love?

People often settle for unhappy marriages and just stay stuck.

Sometimes it’s easier to have the status quo than to imagine that you could be happier, and in a significantly more loving, fulfilling marriage.

Maybe that seems like work.

Being CEO and the Greatest Wife in the World

“Ninety percent of this stuff is not that serious, we just get crazy about it.” –Ursula Burns CEO Xerox

It’s becoming more and more common to see women at the top of the corporate ladder that has long been dominated by men. Finally many women are being recognized for their tremendous leadership skills and business achievements.

Their vision, creativity, and relentless determination to make a difference, is paying big dividends.

A Message about Your Unhappiness

Your unhappiness came with a price that maybe you aren’t fully aware of.

When did you give away your Self-Worth?

Have you, as an adult, ever placed your entire self-worth in the hands of someone else?

Meaning…that you could only feel good about yourself when you felt loved, accepted and good enough for this other person… who is typically your spouse.

The Surprising Personal Consequences of Cheating

What price do you pay when your personal integrity has left you?

Cheating and affairs are common. More common than you might think, and it has never been easier for a married man or woman to hook up for sex outside of their marriage.

This article might seem uncomfortable for some readers because it will resonate closely with their own personal reality.

While there is a lot to talk about when it comes to affairs, I am only going to focus on one specific area; the emotional impact on the person having the affair.

People make mistakes. We all make mistakes.

How to Avoid Valentine’s Day Disappointment

“Your relationship will always reflect what you do and fail to do”

The big day of love is just about here, Happy Valentine’s Day…or maybe not. That all depends on how you feel about your partner and the overall status of your marriage.

Is it happy or unhappy?

This year, over 1 Billion Valentine’s cards will be given, many of them exchanged from a sense of obligation, or to meet an expectation of society and/or your partner.